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Who makes medical decisions for you?
If you can't speak for yourself and haven't named anyone, your state's law picks someone for you. Choose your state to see who.
Why the law's choice may not be yours
Most states have a default list: usually a spouse first, then adult children, parents and siblings. A close friend, if the law allows one at all, is nearly always last. If the person at the top of the list is someone you'd never pick, the law doesn't know that.
You can change it in an afternoon. A medical power of attorney names your own choice first, and a backup behind them. Our 50-state guide has every state's rule in one table, with sources.
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