Medical power of attorney in Virginia: how it works, how to sign

Updated 2026-10-18

The short answer

Virginia uses one document, an advance directive, to name a health care agent and write down treatment wishes. You sign it before two adult witnesses, with no notary, and even a spouse or relative may witness. If you name nobody, Virginia turns to a guardian, spouse, adult children, parents, siblings, other relatives, then a close friend.

The question under every medical power of attorney is a simple one. If you can't speak for yourself, who talks to the doctor?

Virginia calls the document an "advance directive," and its suggested form is titled "Advance Medical Directive." This page covers how to sign one, who can witness, and what happens if you never name anyone. It is part of our state guides to estate planning. For the basics of the role, see what a medical power of attorney is.

What is a Virginia advance directive?

It is one document that can do several jobs. It can name a health care agent, give instructions about your care, and make an anatomical gift (Va. Code 54.1-2983).

Your agent is a fiduciary: legally required to act in your interest and follow what you wrote. In day-to-day terms, that means talking with your doctors and saying yes or no to a test, a surgery or a new medicine in light of your wishes.

Virginia has a suggested statutory form you may use, but you don't have to (Va. Code 54.1-2984). Once signed, you can file your directive with the state's Advance Health Care Planning Registry, so it can be found when needed.

How do I sign one in Virginia?

Virginia keeps this simple. You sign the advance directive in the presence of two witnesses, who also sign (Va. Code 54.1-2983). No notary is required.

A witness is any person over 18. Virginia's law expressly allows your spouse or a blood relative to be a witness (Va. Code 54.1-2982). Employees of health care facilities and doctors' offices, acting in good faith, may also witness.

That is unusually relaxed. Many states bar relatives from witnessing. In Virginia, your sister and your neighbor could both sign as witnesses at your kitchen table.

There is also an oral option for one situation. A person diagnosed with a terminal condition may make an oral advance directive in front of the attending physician and two witnesses.

QuestionVirginia's answer
How many witnesses?Two
Minimum age for a witnessOver 18
Can a spouse or relative witness?Yes
Can a health care employee witness?Yes, acting in good faith
Notary needed?No
Official form required?No; a suggested form is available

Your financial power of attorney doesn't cover health care. Our Virginia power of attorney guide covers that document.

Do I need a separate living will?

No. Virginia has no separate living will law. Your instructions about life-prolonging procedures go in the same advance directive, signed the same way (Va. Code 54.1-2983).

The suggested form includes treatment-instruction options you can mark. Our post on health care power of attorney vs living will explains how the two ideas fit together, and treatment preferences helps you think through what to write.

Who decides if I haven't named anyone?

Virginia law picks for you. If you can't make an informed decision and have no advance directive naming an agent, your doctor may act on the say of the first person on this list who is available, willing and able (Va. Code 54.1-2986):

OrderWho can decide
1A guardian (no guardianship is needed for a decision to be made)
2Your spouse, unless a divorce action has been filed and isn't final
3An adult child
4A parent
5An adult brother or sister
6Any other relative, closest blood relationship first
7An adult who has shown special care and concern for you and knows your beliefs, values and wishes

If several people in the same group disagree, such as three adult children, the doctor may rely on a majority of those reasonably available.

Notice where a close friend sits: last. Even then, a friend can serve only if three things are true:

  • The decision isn't about withholding or withdrawing a life-prolonging procedure.
  • The friend doesn't work for, direct or act for a provider currently caring for you.
  • A quorum of the hospital's patient care consulting committee, or two independent physicians if none is available, decides the friend meets the test and writes it down.

So without a signed directive, a friend who knows you best can't make the hardest decisions at all. A cousin you rarely see would rank ahead of her.

Naming a health care agent changes that. Your agent comes first, whether they are a friend, a partner or a niece. Our post on medical decisions without a power of attorney compares how other states handle this, and the 50-state guide to default decision-makers has the full list. To see your own situation, try who decides for me.

Here is a typical case, a composite. Barbara is 72, widowed, and lives in Charlottesville. Her daughter lives in Texas. Her friend Carol drives her to appointments and knows exactly what she would want. Barbara names Carol as her health care agent and her daughter as backup.

How do I choose my agent?

Once the signing is done, the practical questions matter most. Is the person willing? Can they get to the hospital? Will they follow your wishes even when they'd choose differently?

A short checklist:

  • They know what you want, because you've told them.
  • They can stay calm in a hospital hallway and ask questions.
  • They live close enough, or can travel when needed.
  • You've named a backup in case they can't.

Our post on how to choose a medical power of attorney has more questions to ask.

Some people would like a professional ready to step in, first or behind a friend. A Kinly membership includes a medical power of attorney written for your state, and Trella Trust Company can be named as your agent, first or as the backup to someone you choose. That is a private choice you make in your own documents, not a court appointment.

Once your health papers are done, our Virginia probate guide covers what happens to your home and savings later.

Common questions

Does a Virginia advance directive need to be notarized?

No. It needs your signature and two adult witnesses. No notary is required.

Can a family member witness my Virginia advance directive?

Yes. Virginia expressly allows a spouse or blood relative to witness. Any person over 18 can serve as a witness.

Who makes medical decisions in Virginia if there's no advance directive?

A guardian first, then your spouse, an adult child, a parent, an adult sibling, other relatives by closeness of blood, and finally a close friend who meets strict conditions.

Can a close friend make medical decisions for me in Virginia?

Yes, if you name them in an advance directive. Without one, a friend ranks last, can't decide about withholding or withdrawing life-prolonging procedures, and must be approved by a hospital committee or two independent physicians.

Is there an official Virginia form?

Virginia has a suggested Advance Medical Directive form. You don't have to use it. Any document that meets the signing rules is valid.

Sources

This page is general information, not legal or financial advice. Laws vary by state.

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